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Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Never Surrender, Never Give Up

I once read:

"When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long."
"Not all of you will become successful here. But if you give up on your dreams, you might as well die. You owe it to yourself to try!"

And, I found this:

22 Reasons To Never Give Up

At some point in the various journeys we embark on in our lives, we get to a part where we feel like giving up. Sometimes we give up before we even start and other times we give up just before we are about to make that huge break-through that we have been putting so much effort in to achieve.

I have created this list of 22 reasons why you should never give up and I hope that you will find it before you give up, so that I can inspire you to keep going!

1- As Long As You Are Alive Anything Is Possible
The only valid excuse you have to give up is if you are dead. As long as you are alive (and healthy and free) you have the choice to keep trying until you finally succeed.

2- Be Realistic
The chance of mastering something the first time you do it is almost non-existent. Everything takes time to learn and you will make mistakes. Learn from them.

3- Michael Jordan
Arguably the best basketball player of all time. He attributes his success to all his failures. He just never gave up even when he knew he had missed over 300 shots and had missed the winning shot of the game many times. Every time he got knocked down he got back up again.

4- Lance Armstrong
Lance was diagnosed with serious cancer that had spread throughout his entire body. He had cancer cells the size of golf balls in his lungs. Despite all odds he overcame the cancer and set out to win the Tour de France 6 Consecutive years in a row.

5- Muhammad Ali
“Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee”. Muhammad Ali is one of the best boxers the world has ever known. He suffered only 5 losses while having 56 wins and was the first boxer to win the lineal heavyweight championship three times. This is a guy who literally knows how to get knocked down and get back up.

6- The Man Who Created The Marathon
Very long ago an Athenian herald was sent to Sparta to get help when the Persians landed in Greece. It was said that he ran 240km in 2 days and after that he ran 40km to announce the victory of the Greeks only to collapse and die on the spot from exhaustion. If you ever feel like things are difficult, imagine what it would be like to run 240km in 2 days. (Don’t try that because you might die from it, but use it as an inspiration).

7- Chris Gardner – The Pursuit of Happiness
Have you seen the movie “The Pursuit of Happiness”? It is based on the life story of Chris Gardener, a man who went for the lowest of the lows in an environment where most people would give up (no money, no job) to the highest of the highs (A millionaire with his own investment firm). If you ever think about giving up, watch this movie!

8- Kanye West
I’m pretty sure you have heard of the rapper Kanye West. Read his story. He is a big inspiration for me and proves that you can go from having very little to being among the most famous and respected people in the world.

9- Nelson Mandela
Campaigned for justice and freedom in his South Africa. Spent 20 years in jail for his opposition to apartheid. On release he healed the wounds of apartheid by his magnanimous attitude toward his former political enemies.

10- You Are Strong
You are stronger than you think. One little setback is not enough to stop you from achieving your goals. Neither are 10 or 100 or 1000 setbacks.

11- Prove Yourself
You don’t want to be known as someone that is weak and gives up. Go out there and prove yourself to the world and to yourself. You CAN and WILL achieve what you set out to do. The only time you fail is when you give up.

12- Has It Been Done Before?
If someone else can do it then so can you. Even if it is only one other person in the world that has achieved what you have set out to achieve, that should be reason enough for you to never give up.

13- Believe In Your Dreams
Don’t sell yourself short. In life there are going to be many people who will try to bring you down and tell you what you want to achieve is not possible. Don’t let anyone destroy your dreams.

14- Your Family and Friends.
Let the people you love and who mean the world to you be your inspiration to persist and persevere. Maybe you need to try a different angle, study more or practice more but don’t give up!

15- Because I Tell You To.
Not that I am any sort of guru or Godly figure, but if you want to give up then don’t. Just because I’m telling you not to.

16- There Are People Worse-Off
Right now there are many people who are in a worse situation and environment than you are right now. Are you thinking about giving up running 5 miles a week? Think about the people who are unable to even walk and how much they would give to be able to run 5 miles every day.

17- Improve Our World
When you achieve whatever you set out to achieve you can use your success to make a difference to the world or other peoples lives.

18- Get Rich or Die Trying
Like Fiddy (50 cent) says, “Get rich or die trying”. 50 Cent is rich, he made it (although he did get shot 9 times). Face your fears and don’t take the easy way out by giving up.

19- Let The Haters Hate
There will always be haters. There will always be plenty of naysayers and people who try to tear you down. Don’t pay attention to them and don’t take what they say to heart. Let the haters hate and you keep believing in yourself.

20- You Deserve To Be Happy
Don’t ever let anybody tell you otherwise. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to have success. Keep that mindset and never give up until you reach your destination!

21- Inspire Others
Be an inspiration to others by refusing to give up. Who knows what someone else can achieve because you never gave up and in turn inspired them not to give up.

22- You Are So Close
Often when you feel like you want to give up and you are about to give up you are so close to making a huge break-thru. Seth Godin has written an awesome book about this called “The Dip” – a riveting read that teaches that at any given time you are always just a heartbeat away from success.

P.S. NEVER GIVE UP!

My 23rd Birthday

The status update that gains a non stop notifications:

23 years ago today at this moment, a woman was crying out loud yelling for pain after she endured the 9 months heavy carriage in her stomach. For the first time in her life, she started her life as someone's mother. One year later, she became a single parent. She never complained, never give up in giving the best to her baby.
23 years later today at this moment, the baby grew up to a boy, or perhaps a man. The carriage in the stomach never stop becoming burden, and continuously becoming a burden of her for last 23 years.
The baby 23 years ago very much hope one day, he could tell her, proudly and confidently:' Mom, it's time for you to rest. Handover the burden to me, let me carry it, just like how you did it for all these years.'
Maybe, she never even thinks, for a second, that is a burden.
Thank you Mom for everything in 23 years ago today!

从前从前,(二十三年前)的今天的这个时候。凌晨12点10 分,一个妇女在医院哭着喊,嚷着痛,把忍了九个月肚子里的负担诞下。第一次,她成为了人家的母亲,开始了生命另一篇伟大的章史。一年后,她成为了单亲妈妈。
二十三年,含辛茹苦,没有埋怨过,放弃过,就算有多累,有多苦。
二十三年后的今天,那个孩子长大成人。从前肚子里的负担从来没有改变过,只有一天天变大,从以前的一体去到了实实在在的另一个人
不知道还有多久,可是那个孩子其实很希望有一天可以大声地,骄傲地,自信地跟他妈妈说:“妈,你也累了。是时候休息了。一切交给我吧!就好像二十三年前我把自己交给你那样。”
又或许,无论肩膀上扛了多重,她从来没有把这些当成是一种负担,还是负累。看着孩子一天一天地长大,自己一天一天地老去。她没有也不敢要求什么,只希望有一天自己老了,孩子可以陪在自己身边就好。
嗯,妈,二十三年前,还有这些年,谢谢您了!
再忍耐一下,您可以安心放下心头大石的日子,不远了!

其实生日,也只不过是我们在繁忙的生活中要轻松一些的理由。
生日,更重要的是,它是母亲受难日。。。

Thursday, March 1, 2012

thanks my friend

Hey my friend,
You know who you are.
Just wanna say,
in case you haven't already know,
your warmest message to me-
"You are a person who very determine in what you really want, which is something lacking in many people.Please don't let anything discourage you. Do you know Thomas Edison?The fellow invented light bulb. He believe the profound secret that to succeed you have to be willing to fail and fail fast.Your "failures" are nothing more than lessons. One day you'll be able to light up your life.. :) "
was the greatest motivation of the day:)