F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Usually with this kind of topic, I will definitely make a long story about how lucky I am to have all my friends and dwell on the story of 3+3. Of course, many others as well. In fact, until today, as a matter of fact, yes, I still feel proud, happy and lucky to have them.

But now I've finally realize, or precisely experience the feeling of going to University and mixing around with friends that you don't really wanna be friend with. It's not anti-social. It is just, you know, everyone in University is selfish, at least most of them are (maybe that's a way of self defense) so we can't expect much and it is even harder to expect a soul mate in Uni life.

Buddy, dude, mate, yeah, it is very easy to get. Plenty of them out there, more than enough. No buried reasons, it is just too simple to have people to share joy and happiness, not the sorrow and agony unfortunately.

Maybe it's neither party's fault, it's just 'personality un-match'.

I didn't mean that we can get someone who able see eye to eye with each other in every single matter, but I mean, a friend, someone who is really worth you caring about. No one said it has to be someone who shares everything do everything together, considering the fact that even couples don't do that, I mean just someone who can earn and gain some trust from you, a trustworthy person, that's really all that matters.

Okay, my personal experience, it sucks. I pretty much experience a jerk's doing somehow.

Well, the plus side, at least I can see more personality, train my 'personality observation analysis', or even learn how to adapt in a bunch of people that you can't give your heart to.

So,

I don't understand. Why do some people can just expect, or think that they deserve to be treated good and take everything for granted? Mind your tongue and act dude, you might just end up burning yourself with that one day. Not everyone is being proud of being your friend, sometimes you have just overestimated yourself.

Friendly advice.=)